Sunday, September 23, 2012

OTHERS

[The following is a reprint of a blog of mine from May 14, 2010.]

For whatever reason, recently I am receiving the message of “service to others,” “service for others,” “serve others.”  I am feeling bombarded with need-to-serve messages.

Which, I hasten to add, I know to be a good message…and even if I didn’t know it, I wouldn’t admit to it. I mean, common sense tells me it’s a good message…except that it seems every time I get it, I sorta wilt. Then I start justifying that I do, why I don’t, how much I do…uh-oh, not enough. Let’s face it, “serve others” is a downer to me.

Maybe the problem is that the very word “serve” feels to me like a lecture, and lectures that I haven’t selected of my own free will just tick me off. I’m not big on sermons either which it also feels like.

I’m guessing I need to reinterpret the word…maybe if I just drop the word entirely. When I read “serve others,” think “others.” “Service to/for others” is just “others” if I want it to be.  

Thank You.

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