Saturday, April 7, 2018

ON HAVING A PLAIN OLD FRIEND

By all means, you must find at least one loving, honest friend to ground you, which might even be the utterly accepting gaze of the Friend.

It's amazing and oh-so gratifying to realize how my experience with friends and my acceptance of them has changed over the years. I suspect the change is God's way of leading me to love my enemy as well as my neighbor not to mention myself.

A couple examples:

  • I let old JoB be an angel in disguise, and I feel no itch-to-bitch about her or his ways.  
  • I am thanking God daily for keeping my heart and my mind open toward a friend who is not doing it right...my open mind is that I am asking to realize that s/he is right already.
Having realized that, it is still vital to me to have a loving, honest friend to talk to. 

Who's kidding whom? God, Jesus, Mary and Joseph are the best, but running my mouth about Gertrude takes an in-the-flesh friend if I'm going to feel understood. And isn't that kinda what comfortable feels like?

Thank you.

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