All it takes to show respect is to be as concerned for the well-being of others as we are for our own feelings. Ah, feelings. Feelings are the false thermometer of life.
In the '60s, the word was, "If it feels good, do it." So we did. See where that got us?
Now, it seems the word is, if it feels anything but ego-satisfying (i.e., warm and wonderful), drop it. See where that is getting us?
I love the Prayer of Saint Francis, especially "For it is in forgiving that we are forgiven." I'm thinking forgiveness is just giving respect where we had been withholding it. Interestingly, just this morning I read, Without forgiveness nothing new happens.
The new that happens is we give over to another, we cede the will to be right, we say, "Yes, thank you."
Being respectful, showing respect, is forgiveness stripped of self. The very respect we give invites respect in return. Like the man said, it is in forgiving that we are forgiven.
Q: Why is that so hard for us to do?
A: Because it is wholly spiritual. Our reasoning mind cannot get us there, never mind our "want to."
We go to God for God, and that is all. Then, and only then, can our life become a spiritual fountain of peace, love and joy where respect and forgiveness flow without thought.
Yes, thank you.
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