Per Fr Richard Rohr, how we do anything is how we do
everything. I've read that in several different books of his and have heard him
say it in lectures. I accept it as true, but I had to really work to wrap my
brain around it.
Then I recalled some 40 years ago, a friend and I were
talking, realizing how opposite we were in dealing with life. She was extremely
intelligent, strong-willed and very accomplished...she got things done. I knew
mine was an intuitive nature and that I relied...a lot...on inner direction
(which I did not yet recognize as God).
She saw a problem? She righted it...or gave it her best
shot. She dug in at any rate. I saw a problem? I felt overwhelmed, figured I
could do nothing about it and learned to either live with it or avoid it. And
bitched a lot.
All these years later as I look back, I see how her way has
worked extremely well for her. And my way has worked equally well for me.
I have no way of knowing how she mellowed with her way (in
general we all do mellow, with age), but I look at my way, and I am filled with
gratitude...with awe and gratitude. For what I see is that which I thought of
way back then as my gutless wonder approach to life was actually me learning
early the road to acceptance. It's what Rohr calls "a daily merging with
the problem and finding its full resolution."
I know the one constant that has helped me immeasurably over
the years in merging with my problem(s). I just mentally repeat, “When I find
myself in times of trouble, Mother Mary comes to me, speaking words of wisdom,
'Let it be, oh, let it be.'" There. The Beatles to my rescue with their song, Let It Be.
For all I know, my friend may use Einstein's Theory of
Relativity, but "Let it be" is God whispering in my ear.
Thank you.
Thank you.
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